– audio version and Portuguese version coming soon ;-) –
project created with joy & care by Marina Frangipani with the support of The Bloom: a global community for social impact careers (2022)
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is JOY somewhere else?
I
the myth:
joy happens in the remarkable
memorable events of our lives
our mind might believe JOY is a mirage
something that's far away from us
and we need to work towards
we need to do more and better
we need to be wiser
and smarter
so we fill our minds with MORE
more danger
more problems
more fear and worry
what's wrong
what's not working
while wondering
“where is JOY?”
II
so we hold on to nostalgia
attached to our memories of
WHEN we used to feel joy
we hold on to the pain
of knowing that
joy is in the past
joy is somewhere else
joy is in a future spot
of our calendars
we wish joyful events
wouldn't come to an end
feeling the pain in anticipation
of their inevitable ending
joy won't last for long
– will I ever feel joy again?
PAIN and JOY live side by side
III
the dirty dishes
keep piling up
in the sink
we wish
we could forget
the daily life just
for a moment, the reality
that’s not what we wished it was
can we create space for joy in
our lives as they are?
like a breath of fresh air
the loose thread of a shirt
might reveal an unexpected path
JOY might happen anytime, anywhere
when we give attention to it
what fascinates you the most right now?
BE OPEN TO NEW POSSIBILITIES
IV
look up
look around
what can you see beyond your screen?
FOLLOW YOUR CURIOSITY
and discover what’s beyond
the dirty dishes piling up in the sink
squint your eyes
and what can you see?
the dirty oven
becomes a painting
the hole in the jacket
a portal to a new perspective
what else can you see?
what grabbed your attention?
have a closer look
take a picture
what fascinates you the most?
like the spectrum of feelings
the answer changes each time
how would life look
if we experienced JOY more
often throughout our lifetime?
V
imagine the delightful taste and smell of joy
the joy of savouring what made this moment a reality
can you notice the JOY of being able to notice?
the joy of the deepest connection of our humanity
the body
the textiles
the awareness
we inherited from our ancestors
what can you notice
about this moment in time,
your moment of life?
close your eyes and feel
the warmth and texture
of your own skin
the clothes that keeps you warm
the beautiful experience of
being in your own body
in your own time
VI
can you notice something
you’ve never noticed before?
what can you see far and near?
SEE THINGS FROM A DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE
come closer
lower down
look from a different angle
from the perspective of a child
what can you see?
what does it remind you of?
the kitchen extractor fan becomes a texture
a beautiful woven piece of cloth
what else can you see?
what do you feel?
VII
turn the radio on
and allow the randomness
of the moment to involve you
the sound of "Little Light" might reach you
the rhythm that makes your body move
what fascinates you?
has something strange
or wonderful happened today?
LET YOURSELF BE SURPRISED
get off the screen
and wander on the street
an unexpected poster might surprise you
– look, it’s “sense of joy”!
how could that be?
JOY and WONDER live side by side
VIII
look around
what can you see?
the weight of the house
or the beauty and joy
of what’s within?
the grater in the kitchen reflects my clothing
as the glass of water reflects the light from outside
what’s at the intersection
of your inner and outer world?
what fascinates you the most right now?
IX
joy happens when
we allow ourselves
to experiment without
an expected outcome
JOY is not the end goal
joy is in each step we take
in the connections we create
can JOY be made?
WONDER, WANDER AND PLAY
tell me
how will you reconnect
with your sense of JOY today?